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  Most of the people love much more revenge or punishment for a crime than to forgive… Our No is much stronger than our Yes. Our Hate is much stronger than our Love. This is even telling the Srimad Bhagavatam beside that this is 100% science proofed…  Even you don’t believe that, why are seeing people much more crime and horror movies than love stories? Because people enjoy seeing crime/brutality over love! There is a study about of Equitable Retribution from the Ohio University The people love to punish more for what they have got on punishment… This means:  Forgiveness is worse,  Equally, punishment is too less… Stories with over punishment are the most liked stories… And Stories with forgiveness are not liked at all… How can people live together with such concepts…? I am as usual the worst… For instance, a previous girlfriend has recently cheated on me. She should make the registration for my car and got good money for that… I waited over 3 months and wanted my re...

  If you struggle and become desperate, you prevent your desired outcome. You suppress your ability to perform. In the moment of execution, you have to let go—detach from the outcome and stay fully present. Example 1: During an Olympic Women’s Artistic Gymnastics final, the competition for gold was fierce. Three top gymnasts had already scored above 9.0. Then, a 15-year-old girl performed flawlessly and won. When asked how she handled the pressure, she replied, "Not at all—I just focused on how great I could perform." She felt no fear, no pressure—only the desire to showcase her skill. Example 2: Imagine speaking or performing in front of a huge audience. Do you panic? Or do you focus on serving them as best as you can? If it’s the latter, fear vanishes. When you’re obsessed with the outcome, your mind races:     What if I fail?     What if I’m not perfect?     What will people think? You’re trapped in the future, not the present. This:     S...

 If you struggle and become desperate, you prevent your desired outcome. You suppress your ability to perform. In the moment of execution, you have to let go—detach from the outcome and stay fully present. Example 1: During an Olympic Women’s Artistic Gymnastics final, the competition for gold was fierce. Three top gymnasts had already scored above 9.0. Then, a 15-year-old girl performed flawlessly and won. When asked how she handled the pressure, she replied, "Not at all—I just focused on how great I could perform." She felt no fear, no pressure—only the desire to showcase her skill. Example 2: Imagine speaking or performing in front of a huge audience. Do you panic? Or do you focus on serving them as best as you can? If it’s the latter, fear vanishes. When you’re obsessed with the outcome, your mind races:     What if I fail?     What if I’m not perfect?     What will people think? You’re trapped in the future, not the present. This:     Su...

 The reasons are: 1. We don’t see the beauty in everything and can’t so enjoy our life.   2. We don’t appreciate honesty. 3. We cheat us by ourselves. 4. We think that we are superior. 5. We think that we are flawless. 6. We are idealizing things/people who will disappoint us. 7. We disregard or hate things/people who are actually good and helpful. 8. We are arrogant. 9. We are ignorant.  10. We project our own bad habits, mistakes on other people. 11. We are full of double standards…  12. Other people should function as we want otherwise they are wrong…   Honesty, are you free from those habits?  I had recently people at my home they were criticizing me and I agreed to all of the criticism and looked at what happens…  Why should I not be happy when I get criticized at least I can learn and what is not fitting I  let go!  If we think that we are perfect nobody can help us. If we would pay a lot of money for good advice we would easi...

 You get what you deserve (Tantra wisdom).  We attract what is inside of ourselves and not what we want!!!  Is B. S. inside, yes we get that... If we make the wrong decisions or. If we trust the wrong people or. If we get cheated or. If we get punished.  Then we are 100% responsible for that…!   Because we have attracted and chosen these situations…  We don’t need to forgive other people because we are responsible for every situation in our life!  Instead, we choose to forgive ourselves and let go of our anger, hate on other people that we falsely blemish for our failures or our pain,…  How is that? We get the experience to learn something for free, even we call it pain, failure, cheating... Otherwise for what is life good? Forgiveness is not a business, but to let go from our pain, losses, hate, anger, sadness Otherwise, we harm ourselves...  If we grudge over the past, we destroy our joy, love, and future! Then we live in jail out of negati...

 Positive thinking? If you are depressed by your emotions, results, job, relationships then you apply positive thinking? So what, then you suppress even more your negativity and think positively?  Instead to feel your pain, anxiety, anger, and sadness. Afterward, you build up your love and creativity, and then you change your life. Your negativity is building up the momentum that can destroy your body through diseases and destroy your  1. love,  2. relationships,  3. feeling alive, 4. creativity, 5. fun, 6. intelligence 7. and every day is shorter… And these zombies we see everywhere created by positive thinking,  1. unloved people,  2. depressed people.  3. very unhappy, frustrated old people,  4. ill people,  5. insane people, 6. broken people …    Positive thinking or even worse NLP,  can’t understand the law of Polarity nor Psychology… You learn to idealize your shortcomings by positive thinking.  For instance, Yo...