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 This question should ask everybody themselves?  1.) Can we socialize with Facebook? 2.) Do we like to argue about specific questions? 3.) Do we want to get approved? 4.) Do we want to show how great we are doing and let out the rest? 5.) Do we like to get entertained? 6.) Do we use Facebook for distraction? 7.) Do we want to find out what others are doing?  8.) Do we like to remain in contact without speaking and seeing the person? 9.) Do we like to build up a huge network that never works when we need it?  10.) Do we like to get instant feedback for some pictures, notes, and messages?  11.) Do we like to get news? We can use Facebook for ourselves when we need fast an answer. That we share our feelings, concerns, and opinions. We can post a change of our status to have  1.) a new our Job,  2.) to be engaged,  3.) married,  4.) separated,  5.) a friend died, 6.) or to get a child.  We get this message out and after a short time, it...

  By Ken Honda, the money guru from Japan… Ken Honda believes that we should appreciate money more and discuss it more positively as “happy money” that we have received. When we judge money negatively, we tend to attract less of it. I participated in his program and donated happy money to the healer Williams Nonog, and somehow I was able to generate more happy money in the stock market. I also began to support my gambling-addicted girlfriend, and as a result, I started worrying less about money. Even better, I found myself making more happy money on the stock market again. It’s truly magical! The more money I contributed, the more I was able to make! Ask yourself: Is your money happy? What negative beliefs about money did you internalize as a child? What experiences of happy money do you remember receiving from your parents or grandparents when you were young? The problem is that there’s so much happy money in our lives that we often fail to appreciate it because we are overwhelmed...

 Life has neither a meaning nor no meaning (Osho). If we see our life… We get born into a family that we didn’t choose and get educated through them, that we didn’t like and learned a skill to make money…  And then our sexual desires awake and we want:  1.) To enjoy our sexuality with a deep love, -maybe our happiest moments in life. 2.) We marry and get kids, have to earn enough money and suffer through that. 4.) Most of the people get a job that they don’t like and even earn too less money. 3.) After the kids are grown up and leave us we suffer through aging, diseases, loneliness, and too less money. Krishna said worldly happiness is in the beginning Paradise and then Hell … I agree. Krishna said religious happiness (Satchitananda) is in the beginning Hell and then Paradise. I totally disagree…  Hazard Inayat Khan said: When the inner path doesn’t lead to more happiness, you have done it wrong or you have chosen the wrong path! We all have a biological clock tickin...

 Life has neither a meaning nor no meaning (Osho). If we see our life… We get born into a family that we didn’t choose and get educated through them, that we didn’t like and learned a skill to make money…  And then our sexual desires awake and we want:  1.) To enjoy our sexuality with a deep love, -maybe our happiest moments in life. 2.) We marry and get kids, have to earn enough money and suffer through that. 4.) Most of the people get a job that they don’t like and even earn too less money. 3.) After the kids are grown up and leave us we suffer through aging, diseases, loneliness, and too less money. Krishna said worldly happiness is in the beginning Paradise and then Hell … I agree. Krishna said religious happiness (Satchitananda) is in the beginning Hell and then Paradise. I totally disagree…  Hazard Inayat Khan said: When the inner path doesn’t lead to more happiness, you have done it wrong or you have chosen the wrong path! We all have a biological clock tickin...

The Harvard University has done a 75 year survive with 2200 teenager from the Harvard University and from the poorest area in Boston. They checked every 2 years their health and asked questions: 1.) how their life is,  2.) are they happy,  3.) what are their goals,  4.) about their earning, wealth, profession, and 5.) about their spouse, family, and friends. The conclusion: A lovely relationship with our spouse and family is far better than to get rich or famous. People who were focused on fame/wealth changed their partner to younger one… are not so happy. Still, the people who invested the most in their relationship, friends, the community had been the best in happiness, health, the fitness of the brain and longevity.  The results were: 1.)  People who are more connected to family, friends are happier and healthier and live longer than people who are less connected.  2.) Living in a good, lovely relationship protects us for diseases. 3.) Loneliness turns o...

  How to NOT Raise a Narcissist: 3 Key Strategies for Parents Attune to Your Child in an Appropriate Way Avoid giving fake or exaggerated compliments, such as "You're the best," "You're so special," or "You're perfect." Instead, spend quality time with your child. Only offer compliments when they come from the heart and are genuine. Engage with your child by asking questions like, "What are you doing?" and truly listen to their response. Be fully present during interactions. Put away your phone and avoid distractions. If your child calls for your attention, pause what you're doing and give them your full focus. Listen to Their Needs Without Judgment When your child expresses a desire—even if it’s something you don’t personally like, such as a video game—avoid reacting with frustration or disapproval. Instead, ask why they want it and show understanding. Offer alternatives if necessary, but never shame or dismiss their needs. For e...