Leveraging on the past

 The more we remove the pain of the past, so more we gain in the future.

And this applies to every aspect of our life including our love and happiness. 

If we don't release our pain from the past, then we live continuously in the past. For instance after research from London about raping... The study found that 80% of all raped women go back to the same situation where they got raped. There were only 20% who avoided all situations where they may get raped. This means that all the women are still under the spell of their trauma, and are still affected by their experience when they got raped.

Do you think that this applies only to that raped women or for us all? We all repeating, again and again, the same situations until we go with full awareness through that, accept the situation as a learning and change our lives. 

For instance, we got grown up poor and felt humiliated to be so, then we are going to a 5-star hotel,… We still believe that we don’t fit and feel bad  (minority feelings) in the presence of the rich guys in the hotel… because of our upbringing. We love to leave this hotel and going back home. Do you think that we can become wealthy if we feel so? 

The first step is to release our negative feelings, in this case: the humiliation, conflicting feelings about money and then we accept that we had been poor. If we don’t do that, then we can’t get rich and will be our whole life jealous of the rich.

 

The next step is to confront us again and again with such uncomfortable situation to be under rich people until we feel comfortable.

 

And now we are ready to get through our efforts rich because we got rid of all of our negative sentiments….

If we don’t follow this process, then we maybe get very fast rich and afterward poor again. For instance, 90% of the lottery winner is after 5 years bankrupt, even poorer than they had been before.

And the same goes for all of our relationships, we can not love somebody if we harbor inside of us hate, fear, anger, sadness from our previous relationship… and even the previous relationship is based on our experience with our parents… Doesn’t it make sense to work on our childhood with a qualified therapist, a life coach to build up a great loving relationship? Otherwise, we repeat our childhoods traumas again and again, for what!

My video: Leveraging on the past  https://youtu.be/mwXanbEv6yA

My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/Leveraging-on-the-past.mp3