When a great desire fails,…

 we enjoy our life even more?
This looks ridiculous? The great psychologist Prof. P. Wazlavic had done a research on this… 
The results are, that people who didn’t get fulfilled their heart desire, could after they had recovered, appreciate the small things in their life much more. Because after this tragic experience, they know that the little things in life are valuable. And so they can enjoy their life more. Then every moment can be enjoyed.

For me, it was very tragic, that first I could not procreate and did love to have a child. And then I procreate, and the baby was coming too early…. Life is life, - be happy in the here and now.  

When we are driven by passion, then we forget to enjoy our life in the here and now. Then only our goal is important.
Oscar Wild said we are the small things and not the big goals that we have accomplished… This means if we can only enjoy, when we accomplish something, then 99% of our time we are suffering… So that we are unhappy. 
A happy person enjoys nearly everything,… When he gets up, he thankful for the new day, enjoys his morning exercise, the small talk with his children and spouse during his breakfast, even he is enjoying his meal as a very delicate menu… 
And the unhappy person gets up fast, pushes the food into his mouth and don’t want to waste his time on his family. For sure be friendly to ordinary people is a luxury for him. For what? It is not serving him….!!!! Everything becomes an obstacle for him!!!

We can enjoy our life, only when we slow down and enjoy the small things in our life. Our passions have their place in our lives and when we are under the control of our emotions… Life becomes a suffering. And so is it with our heart/great desires, they become too important… And our life becomes unhappy. 

Prof. Paul Wazlavick (Author of the int.Bestseller: The situation is hopeless but not seriously. It is an amusing book about how stupid we are sometimes.)
  

My Video: When a great desire fails.  https://youtu.be/wDYXKN05MiA
My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/When-a-great-desire-fails.mp3

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