No One Is Your Friend

 


– The Harsh Truth About Success & Loyalty

(Inspired by Jack Ma’s Unfiltered Wisdom)


1. The Brutal Reality No One Admits

    "When you’re struggling, people clap. When you succeed, they vanish—or worse, sabotage you."

    Jack Ma’s Story:

        Failed high school twice, mocked by peers.

For instance:

        When I became an engineer, "friends" saw me as competition.

        Even spiritual growth (Kundalini awakening in 2 years vs. decades) triggered jealousy.

   
 Chinese Proverb: "The greatest pleasure is watching a friend fall from a roof."

  
  Why It Happens: Most relationships are transactional, not loyal.

2. The 3 Stages of "Friendship" in Success

    The Cheering Phase:

        "You can do it!" (When you’re no threat.)

    The Silence Phase:

        You outgrow them  They withdraw.

    The Sabotage Phase:

        "You think you’re better than us?" (Their insecurity speaks.)

Example: My classmates supported me until my engineering career threatened their job prospects.

3. What to Do When You Realize This

    Stop Expecting Loyalty:

        People support what benefits them, not your dream.

    Build Alliances, Not Dependencies:

        Partnerships  Friendships in business.

    Trust Only Two Things:

        Your Own Resolve ("I don’t need applause to build.")

        God/Universe ("Divine purpose doesn’t need committees.")

4. The Freedom in This Truth

    No More People-Pleasing: Focus on impact, not approval.

    Silent Grind: The greatest empires (Alibaba included) were built in isolation first.

    Clarity = Power:

        "When you accept no one is your friend, you stop making emotional decisions."

5. Jack Ma’s Survival Blueprint

    Expect Betrayal: It’s not personal—it’s human nature.

    Become Self-Sufficient: Skills  connections.

    Loyalty Test:

        "Who sticks around when I fail?" (Spoiler: Very few.)

Final Warning & Empowerment

    "Success is lonely because it’s a solo journey. But that loneliness is your armor."

Your Move Today:

    Write down one dream you’ve delayed for fear of judgment.

    Cross out one "friend" who doubts you (mentally or literally).

    Act without announcing it.

Remember:

    Jesus had 12 disciples; 1 betrayed Him.

    Steve Jobs was fired by his own board.

    Jack Ma was rejected 30+ times before Alibaba.

You’re in legendary company. Now go build.

(For more unfiltered truths, watch Jack Ma’s full speech.)

Why This Works:

    Psychology: Social pain (betrayal) activates the same brain regions as physical pain. Accepting this numbs the sting.

    History: Every icon—from Einstein to Oprah—faced isolation before breakthroughs.

    You: That anger? Channel it into unstoppable action.

Question: Who’s one person you thought was a friend but vanished when you leveled up? (Name them silently. Then let them go.) 



My Video:  No One Is Your Friend https://youtu.be/jNgerZyOfM8
My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/No-One-Is-Your-Friend.mp3

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