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  I was born when you kissed me. I died when you left me. I lived a few weeks while you loved me. The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind. Things are never so bad they can't be made worse. Ain’t nothing a man can’t do if he believes in himself. I gave up drinking once -- it was the worst afternoon of my entire life. Acting is like sex: you either do it and don't talk about it, or you talk about it and don't do it. That's why I'm always suspicious of people who talk too much about either. Such a lot of guns around town and so few brains! What's at the end of a million dollars? Zero, zero, zero... nothing. A circle with a hole in it. A hot dog at the game beats roast beef at the Ritz. The only thing money is good for is to buy your freedom.

  If you have two versions of yourself, you feel embarrassed when you don't live up to your own standards. You want to improve, so you create a "better" version of yourself. One version is how you want to be seen in public—on social media, at work, among friends. This is the version that tells everyone, "I'm doing great." The other version is who you are in private. No show. No performance. This is the version with all the bad habits, the anxieties, the fears. And buried beneath it all, there is often a small voice that just wants to be authentic. But then the fear creeps in: What if other people discover my private self? That fear—that exposure—is shame. And when those two versions inevitably don't match, you feel a low-grade tension that never fully goes away. A constant, quiet unease. Guilt vs. Shame People often use "guilt" and "shame" interchangeably, but they are not the same thing. Guilt is: "I did something bad." Sha...

You don’t need more productivity. You need more focus. By definition, cleaning your house is productive. But who cares if you’re being productive on the wrong things? Jeff Bezos has said that he gets paid to make about three good decisions a day. That’s it. He simply knows what matters and ignores everything else. When you learn new things, you have to apply them. Here’s the trick: if you work or learn for just half an hour, then rest, then work for another half hour, you are much more productive. And once the work is done, you need to actually enjoy your free time. Otherwise, you won’t stay productive for long. The best productivity advice I’ve ever gotten can be summed up in two words: do less. Do less of the stuff that doesn’t matter so you can focus on the one to three things that actually do. Why you feel busy but still stuck James Clear explains the difference between motion and action. Motion = planning and learning. Action = what actually produces a result. Both are necessary, ...

  I got tendonitis in my elbow from wood chopping. I tried to heal it with ice, frequencies (Rife generator), stretching, and massage. But I could not heal it, and it became chronic within a year. Whenever I strained my arm, it started again. Now, I have healed it. Massage Massage the entire arm with this castor oil blend: - 60–70% castor oil - 20–30% DMSO - 10% black seed oil or clove oil Do this 3 to 5 times per day. Focus on the area of pain or the problem while you massage, but be gentle. Stretching Always stretch your arm when you have pain. Stretch the arm with the help of your other arm. Bend your hand 90 degrees upward and stretch your straight arm, then bend your hand 90 degrees downward and stretch your straight arm again. Pain is gone. Now comes the magic!!! Take 1 teaspoon of moringa powder with your food, 3 to 5 times per day. Moringa powder heals bone and joint inflammation and is used for that in Ayurveda. Take 2 black seed oil capsules per day—best is 1000mg from No...

  What kind of relationship problems do we face? If every argument makes you want to break up, your trauma is talking. When your partner upsets you, your brain immediately jumps to ending the relationship.   That reaction comes from unhealed emotional wounds, not the actual severity of the problem. You depend too heavily on their responses, expecting them to perfectly meet your emotional needs every single time.   You want instant replies when you are excited, immediate comfort when you are sad.   When they fall short, the disappointment feels crushing, and running away seems like the only option. You avoid conflict because you never learned how to navigate it. People with secure attachment face relationship problems differently.   They stay and say, “Let’s work through this.” But when you have been hurt before, every small issue feels like touching an open wound.   So your instinct is to flee, to end it, believing that is the only ...

  Song  Non, Je Ne Regrette Rien   She touched my soul with this  and that happened to all…   Non, rien de rien — No, nothing at all Non, je ne regrette rien — No, I regret nothing Ni le bien qu'on m'a fait, ni le mal — Neither the good done to me, nor the bad Tout ça m'est bien égal — It's all the same to me C'est payé, balayé, oublié — It's paid for, swept away, forgotten Je me fous du passé — I don't care about the past (informal/strong)  Use your faults, use your defects; then you're going to be a star. When you reach the top, you should remember to send the elevator back down for the others. Singing is a way of escaping. It's another world. I'm no longer on earth. I want to make people cry even when they don't understand my words. All I've done all my life is disobey. Every damn fool thing you do in this life you pay for. My conservatory is in the streets. My intelligence is instinct. Don't care what people say. Don't give a ...