Self-Sabotage is a Lie
Every soul has a mission—and therefore, priorities about what to do. When we do the things our soul values most, those things are fun, and we operate at our highest efficiency. We don't need extra motivation. They fit us perfectly, and we can do extraordinary things. The more our soul dislikes something—or the lower its priority—the more motivation we need to do it. Eventually, we hate what we do and procrastinate. The first thing we should do is discover what our soul truly wants. And that is mostly not what our parents, teachers, or society want. The Trap of People-Pleasing We desire that everybody—or at least the most important people—love us. So we do the things that please the people we love, and we forget our life purpose. Or we admire others and want to do the same things—to feel better, to make more money. But we can't copy others. We have to live our life and do what our soul wants. What Self-Sabotage Really Means We start to self-sabotage or procrastinate when we are ...