Real Relationships have real problems
Many people assume emotional security means never feeling jealous, arguing or questioning where they stand. But couples in emotionally secure relationships can navigate discomfort without losing trust in each other. 1. In relationships, small problems are blown up to immense problems… For what is that good? We want to solve our problems and don’t want to enlarge them in the future… Just solve them in the here and now. Strategy go in baby steps… If you want to go from A to B in the night you can see only 50m, and you have to go 400km… Should you panic, or you ask what is If I am going wrong Or I have an accident If I am not on time If I have not enough petrol, even you have… This leads to nothing. It is always enough to solve the problems that you have right now. We go forward, stubbornly forward regardless how the situation looks projected in the future. We don’t know the future and to assume the worst case scenery makes life awful. ...