Instead of trying to be somebody, be yourself
– by Jim Carrey Let go of the need to be something for somebody. Say no when you don't want to. Don't feel obligated to please everyone. Don't chase selfies—choose kindness and friendliness instead. Selfies freeze the world; they stop life. You want to put on a big show, but all you're doing is giving people a false sense of relevance on social media. I see people posting about their greatness on Facebook while showing zero genuine interest in others—and eventually, they even disable comments. It's a predictable cycle: narcissism, arrogance, and then the fall. Everyone talks about depression these days. But what's the real difference between depression and sadness? Sadness arises from something that happened—or didn't happen—to you. Depression, on the other hand, comes from a deeper place: "I don't want to be this character anymore." Your body and mind are crying out for deep rest—rest from the fictional identity you built for others. People ...