How self-improvement is RUINING YOUR LIFE

 

And I could write books about it how all the new standards or rules we should live for have a downside…

Self-improvement can make you self-absorption

Your life becomes just you… 

To maximize your time, spirituality, and outcome and skip what is not fitting

But that doesn’t make you happy, 

If you love and serve people, your friends, and your spouse… that makes you happy and fulfilled …

But that you should skip to improve your life… 

The people that are not fitting to your goals you should separate, even if you enjoy being together with them… 

You are the average of the top people with them you are together… 

You separate and like to be together with people who have a higher standard than yourself…

For your goals, you sell your friends, your love… 

You become isolated and always look for better opportunities to be together with better people or people with more money…

You shut out the world and even God to become more focused, and your relationships are over… Who wants to be together with such an Idiot? 

And it is prostitution, you want to suck out your new friends and …

Value your time at best, don’t waste a single moment…

The outcome of a normal conversation, 

When it is not fitting, leave and go, don’t waste your time… 

And the people around you, think, we will retaliate for such impolite, unfriendly behavior 

Instead, to become a better version of yourself, you look that you become better than others…

Instead of becoming a lovable human being 

You become a social 

The self-improving courses give you a rule book that you have to check all the boxes positively to feel happy and fulfilled…

Hitler did the same for his Hitler Jugend or Hitler Youth….

This means one Aswhxxx can dictates when it is allowed to feel happy…. We call this conditional happiness

If I do x, I can feel productive, happy, and fulfilled.

When you don’t do these things or follow these rules on weekends, then you feel depressed… 

So you miss out on life… 

I can feel even happier if I don’t earn 10Mill per month even if I don’t care…. Because my focus is on God!

If you grow older, You realize

that you're backpacking tours or hitchhiking in foreign countries and being together with totally different people…

Staying in an Indian Ashram

 

Climbed or trekked in the Himalayas or Andes …

Or your deep love stories

Have many more positive influences in your life

Self-improvement is expanding your life, trying out different things…

Instead of isolation

Instead of chasing $1Mill, what is the difference to a prostitute? The prostitute enjoys her work!

The biggest question of any self-improvement is why I feel I am not enough.

Even if you get all the stuff, you want so that you think that you are complete.

When you get the stuff that you want, then your ego wants more and what you already have is never enough. 

Money makes you more than what you are already… If you are a bad person, you get even worse…. 

You think negatively about yourself, that you are unlovable, undeserving of success, and abandon

If/when We enter a time where everything runs against us… 

And then to ask what is wrong with me

That makes everything worse…

Instead of consulting yourself, accept the situation, and see it as a challenge.

The new rules of your self-improvement programs teach you, that you can only be happy when you achieve your goals… And makes so everything worse.

You can’t force anything that is not under your control… instead accept the situation.

My Video: How self-improvement is RUINING YOUR LIFE https://youtu.be/kV94yHKTCg4

 

My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/How-self-improvement-is-RUINING-YOUR-LIFE.mp3