The Myth of "Not Enough"
If you feel you don't have enough today, you will feel you don’t have enough tomorrow. This cycle continues until you die.
You will never be at peace with yourself or truly happy as long as you operate from a place of wanting more.
Society constantly tells you to want more. Successful people teach that you deserve more and, in the best cases, give you a plan to get it. But even when you succeed and gain a lot, the desire remains: you want more.
Gandhi said, “The world has enough for everyone's need, but not enough for everyone's greed.” It is the same for the greedy soul; there will never be enough.
We apply this logic to our relationships, too. We think we deserve a better spouse, and our spouse often thinks the same of us.
We are told we must improve every day, do better every day. This mantra implies we are perpetually incomplete and never good enough.
Stop and ask yourself:
Good enough for what?
When will you be good enough?
What happens as you age and your abilities naturally decline?
Chances are, you will die before you ever feel you are “good enough.”
What if, instead, you chose to enjoy your time in the here and now? Or will you choose to punish yourself with a litany of lack?
You are not good enough.
You do not have enough.
Your spouse is not good enough.
Your car is not good enough.
Your children are not good enough.
Your work is not good enough.
Your salary is not enough.
Your boss or customers are not good enough.
The weather is not good enough.
Your body is not good enough—too fat, ill, unattractive, not sexy enough.
You are not young anymore…
The truth is, we can always find something to complain about. But we can also always find something to be grateful for.
If you feel you don’t have enough, start by being grateful for everything you do have—for all you encounter, even for your spouse.
Let the entrepreneurs chase their new goals. Let society tell you that you need a newer car. You can choose to let yourself be happy and at peace.
Until you accept your situation, you cannot genuinely change it.
There is a world of difference between creating from joy and creating from need or greed. An artist creates not from lack, but from a fullness of spirit. That is why their work is profoundly creative and their life feels fulfilled.
We can live that way, too.
I have nothing against self-improvement. But it must come without pressure. And from that place of acceptance and peace, improvement doesn't just happen—it flows.
My Video: The Myth of "Not Enough" https://youtu.be/yTaKKBpF5aY
My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/The-Myth-of-Not-Enough.mp3
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